Caity Flanagan

Sacred Sexuality | Somatic Coaching | Earth-Based Wisdom & Healing



for women/female bodied folks  

A deep dive into inner awakening, healing, and activating of your Yoni and energetic body

The “yoni” (Sanskrit word for the female genitals) is considered the seat of creation and direct portal to the Divine. With this reverence and devotion to the wisdom of the feminine, tantric yoni massage was developed as an ancient practice for healing and awakening.

Today we practice, within a safe, sacred, trauma-informed container, we can connect to the body to accept all parts of you and whatever is present, without judgement or expectation. I practice deeply listening to the messages of your body and with loving presence, skillful touch, and the dance of our arousal, we harness the body’s sexual energy as fuel for your healing, awakening and spiritual growth.

Each tantric yoni massage is a ceremony and unique to each person and moment. No two sessions are alike, however all session are held with deep integrity, a trauma-informed lens, and reverence and love for each beings’ process. Ultimately, these sessions are a journey of self-realization – with the receiver guiding their own experience of shedding the fear, guilt, and shame; of healing past wounds and trauma. Through this work we are able to step into our divine radiant selves, as powerful, sexual, loving, and blissful beings.

This is a safe and sacred space of learning, receiving, and remembering your sensual, sexual, erotic, and spiritual self. This 3 hour ceremony includes: 

- A trauma-informed container that welcomes all parts of you to the experience

- Somatic experiencing work to ground and regulate the nervous system 

- Guided breath-work to open the subtle energy and physical body. We will combine this with gentle movement to prepare the body for the mapping and massage portion. 

-Shamanic journeying and energy work for meeting and awakening the energetic voice of your Yoni and divine feminine

- Yoni mapping - a hands on genital exploration to help you locate the different parts of your Yoni, to point out erectile (arousal) tissue, and learn your unique anatomy of arousal

- Yoni Massage - a hands on genital massage to release tension and to bring deeper understanding of your arousal, sexual energy and ways you can channel this

- Integration time - a post massage space for you to ground and digest your experience. We will also talk about tools to take with you and outline a clear practice guide that is just for you! And have a delicious feast for the senses (think lots of yummy fruit and chocolate) to celebrate.

This work is highly transformational and experiential, rippling out into your world in ways that touch all areas of your being. Shifts often happen in just one session, but one's trauma healing, sensual awakening and sexual sovereignty truly takes time to fully unfold. Our work can span a course of weeks, months, or even years, depending on how deep you are wanting to go on this path of intimacy and awakening. I find the true potency of this work is experienced over the course of a longer period of time and offer discounts on on-going session work to clients who are choosing to show up for the commitment to their healing and growth. You can see more about my rates below and email to inquire about session packages and discounted rates.

What is Tantric Yoni Massage

Tantric yoni massage is an ancient practice from Tantra, that has come to the US through the Neo-Tantra movement. Also known to some as “sacred spot” massage this practice was first brought over to the US in the 1980’s by Andro Andreas Rothe in Germany and further developed by Annie Sprinkle, Mantak Chia, Joseph Kramer, and Charles Muir. As such, it is a modern addition to Tantra. The two outcomes of this technique are healing and awakening. We harness the power of our sexual energy to contact and release our traumas, creating more space inside and expanding our awareness to the full bliss that is available to us. It’s one of the most powerful modalities I’ve encountered and as a sexual trauma survivor and practitioner I truly believe and can advocate for personally and professionally the transformational potential of this work.


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$500 for 3 hour session

To book a session please email

On-Going Session Work

For women who are looking to dive deep into their trauma healing work I offer discounts on multiple sessions and recommend 4-6 sessions. You can email to inquire about packaged pricing.

I offer sessions in my studio in San Francisco and every 3 months in NYC.

Payments can be made via Venmo or PayPal - please note sessions are non-refundable

The Shakti Session

Temple Arts Priestess & Tantric Dakini Initiation


The Shakti Session

Month Long Advanced Priestess Mentorship & Tantric DAkini Initiation

Are you ready to embody your full sexual power and sovereignty?

Are you feeling the call to be a Temple Arts Priestess or Tantric Dakini?

Does your path require more advanced, one-on-one training in Tantra, shamanism, and sexual temple arts by a dedicated practitioner?

The Shakti Sessions are a month-long deep dive into sexual empowerment and spiritual awakening. Through this course you’ll work one-on-one with me to heal blocks to love, intimacy, and your pleasure that you may be carrying. You will be supported to ignite your sexual energy so it infuses every aspect of your life and learn how to cultivate this energy and use it skillfully. AND you will learn how to heal yourself and others with this energy, create your own tantric & shamanic rituals, and receive direct transmissions of ancient tantric ceremonies.

Imagine walking through the world where it is safe to be in your body and in your erotic expression and turn on.

Imagine projecting and holding safe, strong boundaries, so that others meet your sexual expression with deep reverence, respect, and love.

Imagine  your full, juicy turn-on, eroticism flowing through you, alivening and awakening your natural vitality and radiance.

Imagine using your sexual energy to heal yourself and other through ritual and ceremony. Imagine feeling confident, supported, and empowered to step into your role as temple arts priestess & Dakini fully.

When we heal our trauma, bring our sexual energy powerfully online, and weave together the erotic and Divine, it unleashes creativity, abundance, confidence, power, and deep nourishing pleasure. We can harness our sexual energy to open to our vast interconnection with Spirit and Life and awaken to the truth of our life’s purpose.

Working directly with me, you’ll receive direct guidance for your personal healing and empowerment journey. I’ll provide the structure and resources and to support you in bringing this powerful energy online in your life.

Within clear boundaries and a strong energetic container, we’ll cultivate your unique expression of the erotic and Divine, that will amp the energy far beyond what’s possible with solo practice. 

This month-long intensive course includes four one-on-one sessions customized for you. Depending on your growth path, sessions include either giving or receiving sacred spot massage, trauma-informed somatic coaching, shamanic journeying and breath-work and initiation into advanced Tantric ritual. You’ll receive daily self-pleasure and Tantric energy practices to build your sexual capacity. And you’ll receive ongoing coaching and counselling throughout the month.

The Shakti Sessions Journey Includes:

Four 2-hour private sessions

Customized daily Tantric practices

Ongoing coaching for the duration of the month



Paid in full before the start of the Journey

Payments can be made via Venmo or PayPal

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