Caity Reilly

Somatic Practitioner | Trauma Informed Educator + Bodyworker | Sex & Intimacy Counselor for Couples + Individuals | Exploring What Makes Us Human

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Touched by Love: Erotic Massage Immersion for Couples ~ Valentine's Weekend Event <3


  • San Francisco, CA 94121 USA (map)

Touched by Love is a deep dive for couples into the art of er*tic massage and intentional s*xual practice.

During the experience you’ll learn:

  • The pillars of “non-goal oriented”, Tantric and intentional s*xual practice

  • Receive the s*x education and er*tic anatomy lesson you’ve always wanted, so you can pleasure your partner inside and out

  • Discover the difference between cl*max and *rgasms, including the wide range of *rgasms available to you

  • Experience the wide range of “Elemental Touch” and how to weave this in to an incredible bodywork session for your partner

  • Tips for giving an amazing massage and ways to help your partner drop into their bodies deeply

  • How to work with the pelvic floor for healing, awakening and pleasure

  • Understanding how the nervous system influences our capacity for connection, intimacy and accessing expanded states

And more!

This workshop is for couples of all orientations and relationship configurations who:

  • Are interested in expanding their ert*ic skills set and ways of offering touch

  • Are curious about what a “non-goal oriented approach” to s*xuality can look and feel like

  • Have been wanting to dive into er*tic massage and intentional s*xual practice

  • Are looking for new ways to connect physically, emotionally and energetically

  • Want an intentional, guided experience into deeper desire, expression and intimacy together

  • Want a really rad, sexy and intimate Valentine’s Day weekend date

To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5
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Location to be announced closer to the date: the event will either take place in SF or the East Bay
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Schedule + Flow of the Event: will be schedule to be announced closer to the event date

What we will cover during our 2 days together:

  • Orientation with the Group

  • Opening Circle Ceremony

  • Philosophy + Foundations of Er*tic Massage + Non-Goal Oriented Practice

  • Introduction to Intentional Er*tic Practice

  • Experience: Touch through the Elements

  • Connection Ceremony for Couples

  • Integration + Closing

  • Anatomy of Arousal for the Female + Male Body

  • Climax vs. *rgasm - Expanding our Pleasure Possibilities

  • Ways of Touch for Accessing Full Body Pleasure

  • The Secret Ingredient of Devotion

  • The Art of Giving + Receiving

  • Strokes + Pelvic Floor Massage Demo + Q&A

  • Ceremonial Couples Massages!

  • Delicious Closing Ceremony + Integration
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    Logistics:
    - Before February 1st: $425 (tix for 1 couple/2ppl max)

- February 2-10th: $500 (tix for 1 couple/2ppl max)

- Discounts offered for couples registering together (4 or more people) and thrupples/polycules

- Tickets are non-refundable except in the case of extenuating circumstances or due to Covid - please see Covid policy below

- Immersion is limited to 10 couples: please see notes and Covid policy below

- The workshop will take place in a beautiful private home in the Berkeley hills - address provided after registering

- Light snacks and tea, ceremony supplies, as well as, a comfortable trifold mat will be provided for use during the immersion.

- Couples are responsible for bringing their own pillows, sheets and blankets to make their nests, as well as, your choice of “non-scented” body oil and lube.

You’re also encouraged to bring a water bottle, tea mug with lid, layers (think bathrobe), comfortable clothes that make you feel sexy and you can move/sit comfortably in, and a pillow/blackjack or whatever else you may need to sit comfortably on the floor and mats

To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5
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Things to note:

- We will be discussing and learning about both male and female anatomy and arousal. If you’re uncomfortable being in the space with folks of different gender identities or sexual orientations than you this may not be the event for you. Please reach out to Caity at serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com with your questions or concerns.

- You must come with a partner who you already have an established relationship with - no solo registrations or requests to be paired with a partner.

- Couples of more than 2 people (thrupples, pods, polycules, etc) are welcome to join! Ticket pricing and registration is for 2 people only however we can make a special ticket and registration price for your group. Please reach out to Caity at serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com to register.

- Please note while their will be nudity in the space, as well as, other people’s range of er*tic expression this is not a play space. The boundaries of the space will be limited to “second base” play (hands only). Please respect the boundaries of the space and people’s various relational boundaries and experiences with group settings.
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Covid Policy: may be changed and finalized closer to the event

- Vaccination and boosters are recommended, however they are not currently required. Please email a picture of your vaccine card to serpentandrosetantra@gmail.com

- Rapid Antigen tests required at the door both Saturday and Sunday.

- You can bring your own antigen test kit (preferred) or test kits will be available for purchase at the door (1 kit with two tests = $30 - price might be lower or higher depending on supplier)

- Participants will agree to reduce risk and wear a mask the week prior to the event.

- If you feel sick, have any symptoms and/or are exposed to CV the week prior to the event please reach out to the organizer. You’ll be fully refunded or have the option to transfer your ticket to another couple or event (your choice.

- If you wind up testing positive for Covid 24-48hrs after the event you agree to tell the organizer so that she can alert other participants of potential exposure.
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To register please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/Te9hKPuktfoSQx5s5